tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post5326053476896256630..comments2024-01-28T07:18:13.809-06:00Comments on cctexan3 : Jewelry for a Cause: Back to Education on DVcctexan3http://www.blogger.com/profile/04571939672199034096noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-79521988629964395812009-08-09T16:58:42.427-05:002009-08-09T16:58:42.427-05:00it is a sobering thought, that some make it and ot...it is a sobering thought, that some make it and others don't. I felt guilty ( still do at times) that I didnt fight him in court or press charges. But then, I remember what it was like in the 80's. DV wasnt recognised by the courts or cops really. It was just a hassle to go to the call, tell us to keep it down cus the neighbors had called. And left me there with him. <br /><br />I feel for people like Peld. family, those kids.cctexan3https://www.blogger.com/profile/04571939672199034096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-1353431619596721672009-08-08T22:13:30.188-05:002009-08-08T22:13:30.188-05:00This made me cry. I have friends who were abused ...This made me cry. I have friends who were abused and were able to get away. I thank God every day that they are still here and not receiving flowers.<br /><br />Bless you for keeping up the fight.TwinMommiehttp://dummymummysyndrome.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-86564693784583960722009-08-06T14:25:59.195-05:002009-08-06T14:25:59.195-05:00The life long effects from those cretins actions r...The life long effects from those cretins actions ripples on forever it seems. I hope you take up the unenviable task of going to the parole hearings. I know that is very traumatisizing, but ppl do it for their loved ones. <br /><br />I shut down my feelings, dissasociated for so long that I forgot how to feel love or friendship or joy. I still prefer keeping ppl at a distance in most areas of my life. Except my daughter, but even then I sheild her of my past. <br /><br />My hear t goes out to your sisters family and to you for being strong enough to speak up for her.cctexan3https://www.blogger.com/profile/04571939672199034096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-87870624249626859592009-08-06T02:43:11.765-05:002009-08-06T02:43:11.765-05:00It has been 9 years now. I still think there had t...It has been 9 years now. I still think there had to have been a way to hide her or keep her safe. If the police had just taken it more seriously. And while I am not a vindictive person, I wish he had gotten the death penalty. It would have made it easier for me and her children. I worry that someday he will get out.Peldynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467208667969292492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-21717999827555439312009-08-06T02:24:44.692-05:002009-08-06T02:24:44.692-05:00I think that is horrid! those poor kids and yalls ...I think that is horrid! those poor kids and yalls family .. the worst is the abasolute cavalier attitude many officers/depts have had towards DV. they dont seem to understand or want to understand it. "why did you let him hit you?" is always a favorite I ve heard. <br /><br />The most dangerous time is after a woman leaves. I stayed even after he pulled weapons or beat me unconcsious. First out of "love" then out of fear. I always got roses. <br /><br />I cant bear to get flowers now. But I buy them for myself, to give myself power again. <br /><br />I shall pray for the evil to recede a little. It never really does though does it?<br /><br />Second degree murder? Disgusting.cctexan3https://www.blogger.com/profile/04571939672199034096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118514403475594574.post-36267942973441116982009-08-06T01:27:45.300-05:002009-08-06T01:27:45.300-05:00My sister left her husband. But her followed her a...My sister left her husband. But her followed her and killed her. She left behind 6 children. He is in prison for 2nd degree murder. He should have been put away long before that for the years of abuse she endured. She would be alive now if the law against domestic abuse had been enforced.<br />BTW, the knife he used was the one the police gave back to him after he slashed her tires.Peldynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467208667969292492noreply@blogger.com